Thank you for visiting us at Kieler Bee Homestead. We, like a lot of people these days, were coming to the realization that the rat race was just not for us. We were living paycheck to paycheck working well over 40 hours a week each just to sleep in a house that was way too big for us anyway. We became overwhelmed at the upkeep of a house that was empty most of the time and we were way too tired from working to do it ourselves. But because the economy is in a recession we didn't have the money to hire others to do the work we had to muster up all the strength we could to keep up. Why two young adults with only a dog decided to buy a 4 bedroom, 3 bath house just to sleep in is beyond me. But hey, you live and learn.(I learned that owning a big beautiful house was not important, sure it was nice to hear from family and friends "Wow, what a pretty house!" ....those words did not pan out to happiness, security, or feeling fulfilled.)
...So more of my story... I worked for a popular southern restaurant and was working toward owning my own store, which is plan A. When gearing up for the big hairy interview process God answered a HUGE prayer... we got pregnant!!!! While over the moon excited, I was also nervous about having a new baby, being in a new city with a multi million dollar store in my hands. Well God likes to throw curve balls, because while working literally half my life to own a store, what I felt to be my true mission in life, the biggest way to make an impact on those around me while being an entrepreneur... little did I know that being a full time mommy and homesteader was my true calling and owning my own restaurant didn't worked out. Which broke my heart, but looking back on the past few months with the Rugrat, I couldn't be happier.
So on to Plan B, The LumberJack and I had discussed, in a dream like world, what if...what if owning a store didn't work out, what then? Well we had said we wanted to homestead, keep bees, garden, mill trees and build furniture and above all live simply.
So on a mission to do just that we sold nearly everything, our 2,500sqft house in suburbia included.
We were now a quest to find a house with a little bit of land that we could live in immediately (we were living with LumberJack's parents while we looked-just so happened to be through the holidays...did I mention the Rugrat had just turned ONE the week we moved!=STRESS!)
After 4 months and 2 failed offers on other houses, we found one!!! It needs some updating, I'm good with that, but we have a house, some land, a pond, GREAT neighbors, and a chance to live life that makes us happy.
I hope that is what we are all on a quest to do, find what makes us happy, hold on to it, keep it, cherish it, keep doing it, whatever it is, find it!
We sold this beautiful house is suburbia....
I love reading about your adventures. It reminds me of reading a great book. I'll look forward to hearing what happens next.
ReplyDeleteThank you Char! Can't wait to share more!
DeleteIt's so great that you guys have learned early what we have just figured out ourselves a year and a half ago. We looked into living in a"small" house, rv living and live aboard (sail boats). We too had a large 2100+ sq ft home that we practically lived in two rooms out of. We sold and have given away almost everything we owned. An extra car, motorcycle, and TONS of decor and "stuff." It was scary, nerve racking and liberating all at once. We decided to fix up the house to rent to make a passive income and use our skill and knowledge in the market to make up our other needed income for living expenses. We bought a sail boat in March, withdrew the kids from school and made our first journey down to Florida from Virginia over the past couple months. We have been "live aboards" ever since, finding creative ways to inexpensively live and do the day to day chores. Laundry, showering, cooking...it's all an adventure. I think what you are doing is SO awesome and wish you the best of luck and all the blessings one can bestow upon another!! Congrats! :-)
ReplyDeleteErin, I had no idea that you all did that! What an amazing experience for yourself and to give your kids, that is something they will never forget! Anytime you get anxious to feel the land beneath your feet, you are family, always will me, you are welcome to visit our homestead! Congrats to you as well!!
DeleteNice post and GREAT blog name. I look forward to reading more.
ReplyDeleteThank you! There will be a lot more to come!
DeleteThis is so awesome, Liz! I'm blown away by y'all's decision and I applaud you for two for making your own way in the world. It's easy to get caught up in the rat race and measure your accomplishments by what others think you should do (instead of what's actually best for you, your spouse and your family). I can't wait to read more about your adventures! This is sooo cool!
ReplyDeleteThanks Michaelanne! So good to hear from you! Hope you are doing GREAT!
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